@Ecowolfsteen dude get the hint ;)
As for the first post, life sucks, girls and guys suck. You get hurt you don't get hurt, you live once you like someone try spending time with them don't worry about all the in between shit, if it doesn't work out take a breath and move on. The problem isn't people getting hurt it is people letting themselves feel hurt and feeling sorry for themselves cause they were dumped. It is a mental thing, people get with someone and except it to be like the movies, books, etc and when it doesn't they get "sad" as they like to call it, when really they just feel sorry for themselves cause their "dream" didn't live up. Dating is like wine tasting you don't sallow the wine. It is as simple as that the point is to find something you like, "your drink", one that you could "drink" for the rest of your life.
As far as dating in high school I did it, I was one of the foolish dumb stuck ones too, but I learned. However, lets get real for a second teenager will date, will have sex and will do whatever it is they feel like doing period. So on that note they should simply add a class that freshmen or even 6th graders must take about dating, oh wait they had that sex ed. however thanks to parents and politicians a lot of schools don't have sex ed anymore. I can speak for myself had sex when I was 15 didn't effect me a bit or the girl, we still see each other and say hello.
It is the mind set of people that defines how they will act and react in the dating trend, that is why you taste the wine don't sallow it.
btw, woman are dumb they will date the most nastiest, meanest, fucked up guys there are plain and simple. But in the end do you really know those guys you think are bad? I mean the cheaters yea and beaters yea, but I've seen my dad yell at me mom, seen her yell at my dad in public, it was stupid. But they aren't bad people at all been together for 30 years. Who is to say an on looker wouldn't say my dad was being abusive? My point is if a girl is with someone, find someone else to chase don't try to be the stereo typical "hero/good guy/knight is armor"
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