I dont really need advice but only place i could think it fitted best

[TheSchneid 0]

this is gonna sound weird..

and im not after attention (just incase you think it)

 

Read entire thing before judging me... PLEASE!!

 

Right.. well..

 

A few weeks back my gf was really upset and depressed

and said she had cut herself on purpose...

her being unhappy made me really upset

and i got really depressed myself..

and like always when i get like that i do really silly things

and well this time i saw the razor blade i use for sharpening pencils

and i cut myself on the shoulder a few times...

When my gf had got into a better frame of mind i told her what i

had done and she asked if she could see..

so i showed her..and weirdly enough she quite liked it...

and since then every so often i will cut into the top of my arm or my chest

her name or some thing like that.

i did used to cut sometimes... but i had a lot of things going on..

but now its different... i do it cos my gf likes it..and cos i think in my opinion

it shows affection.. as causing yourself pain for someone..

 

I know this is a very strange thing to do for someone

 

Im not emo or anything like that,,,

and doing it doesnt hurt particuarly..

and im not doing it for attention...

I just like... do it without thinking lol

 

Now i know im weird as i quite like the pain...

and that..

but i felt this needed saying..

i know i dont particuarly know anyone..

and this will propably lower everyones thoughts of me..

but this is the only place i could think of that people will

give me there honest opinion..

Ive been told by several people now that i need psychiatric help..

but i dont agree... what i do to myself is my choice... and it doesnt harm anyone

else...

I know what everyone must be thinking reading this...

that im a freak and that i need to get a life and stop wasting time..

 

and i dont know where im going with this...

or how to end it...

so ill just stop hehe xD

[Polraudio 122]

I think you need to stop doing it. Seriously there's other ways to show that you love someone. One of these days its going to get infected and trust me i seen what happens once something gets infected and its not a good site. Lets just say where it was infected was never the same again.

 

But i would stop cutting your self.

[TheSchneid 0]

okily dokily =]

 

thanks for the advice =]

[rgangsta 43]

...OK. It's kind of disturbing. Cutting yourself for a girl is affectionate, but it's the wrong way to show affaection. Both of you need to kick the habit before it gets really out of hand.

[CrimsonInferno 35]

Seems to me she likes the dangerous type.

Instead of cutting yourself and getting the chances of bleeding to death, why don't you do something dangerous looking to catch her attention?

I dunno, if you're gonna continue this relationship, than at least get into fights and get bruises. Cutting yourself can KILL you, so please stop...

 

My point is, if you really wanna stay in a relationship with a girl who likes it when you cut yourself, than do something less dangerous.

Again, trying fighting or something else, but please don't cut yourself....

[TheSchneid 0]

She never asked me to lol

i just did it.. but she asked to see when i told her lol

 

And i never cut deep anyway..

Only ever goes deep enough to leave a mark for a while and

cause pain...

 

I know im not doing myself any favours here saying all this...

 

but i do it very rarely anyway...

depends on my mood..

im either exceptionally happy..

or exceptionally depressed lol

[CrimsonInferno 35]

It doesn't matter if she asked you, she liked it and gave you the impression she wanted you to do it again.

 

Just follow my advice and do something less dangerous.

[TheSchneid 0]

will do :P

 

hmm.. 5 am... should go to sleep..

but i cba lol

[Enigma 10]

Sorry for not posting earlier, but I just want to say I don't understand selfmutilation

Mainly because I can't stand pain. The only time I inflict pain on myself is either over training or self healing such as:pulling out a splinter or a broken nail(which really hurts) but I'm nigerian so I got use to it cause of My PARENTs O.o

in my opinion the best thing to do is to get your girlfreind to release all that destructive stress and energy on something mindless and unimportant, some kind of sport or game or even art. And if you identify the cause of her dangerous habit, encourage her to forget about it with the more mindless tasks

if itssome kind of abuse, self mutilation will dwarf the signs of abuse, if its verbal or mental, something else to think about usually works.

 

If all else fails, bore here to tears then make her happy. IF you can acheive that she'll probably appreciate the attention you give her

[Marked 197]

I don't think this is a problem for you. You obviously understand what you're doing and realize it's not the social norm:

I know this is a very strange thing to do for someone

I know what everyone must be thinking reading this...that im a freak and that i need to get a life and stop wasting time.

 

Some people DO enjoy pain(not that im saying you do). I think that some people just cannot understand for the life of them why people do some of the things they do, but that's because they arn't in the same situation and have never experienced anything similar. People can go from swearing on their lives they'll never do something, but then suddenly faced with a different situation they will do it, and they will suddenly realize. So it is hard to judge.

 

Although I have to say, sounds your girlfriend is somewhat a bad influence :P

[TheSchneid 0]

heeh xD

 

 

well.. i do enjoy the pain lol

and your quite correct.. she is a bit ob a bad influnence in some ways..

shes really mean to me *sulks*

but its only a playful kind of mean

but i love her more than anything.. and i would do anything for her

 

*CHEESEY MOMENT*

 

we have been together for like... 2 and a quarter months now..

but i feel as if we have been together for years...and she said she feels the same

 

*END OF CHEESEY MOMENT*

 

so yeah...

 

and i think i know what im doing...

its propably true that i might need help...

ive often thoguht that maybe i am possibly a bit "insane".

i dont know if thats the eight word to use..

 

by the way... sorry aboput mistakes... jsut woken up heh