Umm.. cant think of what to title this lol

[TheSchneid 0]

I need help...

can anyone tell me.. is it

normal to miss someone constantly

 

me and my gf have been going out for

2 months,.. as i said in my previous post about

me cutting her name on my arm or chest..

anyway...

 

Can someone tell me...

is it normal for me to miss someone as soon

as they go..

its getting to the point sometimes

ive come close to crying i miss her that bad...

 

I dont really like telling things like this much...

but i jsut needed some help on this..

and some possible advice on how to get rid of this feeling

 

Thanks =]

 

 

 

I didnt come to this site to do this...

but this is the second time ive done it lol

[solshadow 0]

I didnt come to this site to do this...

but this is the second time ive done it lol

 

Heh dont worry about it. I dont mind and im sure everyone else doesnt mind helping with advice.

 

Personally I would say its very normal to miss someone that much. I cant diverge but your not alone, Im sure we've all felt that way at one point or another in our lives.

[rgangsta 43]

That happened to me 2 years ago. Unfortunately what I did isn't something I would say/recommend. Here's another option. Do something to keep your mind off the person. Sounds stupid, but it works. Especially when you're having fun.... :D ...I just stated what i did just in different words lol <_<

[Nisage 31]

Sounds like you really like her. From what I've heard and seen, this is natural.

That happened to me 2 years ago. Unfortunately what I did isn't something I would say/recommend. Here's another option. Do something to keep your mind off the person. Sounds stupid, but it works. Especially when you're having fun.... :D ...I just stated what i did just in different words lol <_<

One way to get your mind off of things is to get them onto another thing for a while, like watching some TV, playing video games, reading a book, -insert another example here :P-. Fun things to do.

 

Edit: And that last line sounds like something Quagmire from Family Guy might say, maybe :P

 

I'm sure we've all felt that way at one point or another in our lives.

Not that I know of.

[Wyzrd 12]

I'll be one the first to say I've been down this road. People that know me personally know this too. It's hard, it takes time, eventually you kind of come out of it.

[rgangsta 43]

It was annoying when I missed the girl that I stated before in the above post. I even had dreams about her. You should do something before it gets out of hand.

[TheSchneid 0]

I do really like her and i would do something..

but tbh theres not much i can do that doesnt make me

think of her...as we are very ... very similar..

shes the only person ive actually met that is almost exactly like me

*Personality wise* hehe :P she doesnt look as good as i do

joke... i think shes beautiful..but anyway

and i cant watch TV as i dont have one in my room

and i cant go downstairs otherwise ill get owned

 

And Rgangsta

 

If what you did is what im thinking atm..

i wouldnt do that...

but if it isnt what im thinking...

ill shut up =D

 

And ive fallen in love before..

but its never felt like this before..

(How cheesey was that lmfao!!)

 

*EDIT*

luckily i almost never get dreams... so i dont have that problem

but i expect itll happen at some point

but apart from breaking up with her

theres nothing i can do as far as i can see

and i most definetly dont want to do that

tbh i think ive totally fallen in love with her...

 

even though people would say...

in 2 months... IMPOSSIBLE

although i must say...

im not like most people...

sooo...

[Wyzrd 12]

2 months? I've had it happen in one day. It's weird, but when it happens it happens, there's nothing to stop that feeling. You love someone, you'll know it.

[TheSchneid 0]

yeah indeeed

most people are like...

you havent known each other long

enough and all that crap...

but its personal taste and your emotions

that count

 

another problem i have is the distance as well :/

she lives quite far away... which makes it very hard

but were both trying..

so i think itll be fine.,.

but i just find it hard when she goes off of msn... or the phone..

as its the only way to talk...

[Nisage 31]

yeah indeeed

most people are like...

you havent known each other long

enough and all that crap...

but its personal taste and your emotions

that count

 

another problem i have is the distance as well :/

she lives quite far away... which makes it very hard

but were both trying..

so i think itll be fine.,.

but i just find it hard when she goes off of msn... or the phone..

as its the only way to talk...

So you and me are dealing with the same problem, the distance. Then again.... This might be a stupid question to ask, but is she in america?

[TheSchneid 0]

Nah... shes in northern ireland

and im in england

but its still a good few hundred miles away

shes hopefully coming to stay with me at christmas

but its 4 months till then...

and im dying to jsut hold her after 2 months :/

 

theres propably onlookers thinking...

what a saddo... an msn relationship..

itll never work...

but as long as we both try it will..

 

her parents are happy with her being with me

and shes said that she wants me to go over to ireland

to stay with her..

which is killing 2 birds with one stone...

as i wanted to go there and see what ireland is like

anyway...

and this means i get to be with her and see ireland

 

and my mums happy with me being with her..

my dad doesnt know..

and neither does my stepmum lol

 

although i asked my dad if i could have a "friend" to stay..

(meaning her) and he said hed think about it...

although knowing him thats a no lmao

[Nisage 31]

Nah... shes in northern ireland

and im in england

but its still a good few hundred miles away

shes hopefully coming to stay with me at christmas

but its 4 months till then...

and im dying to jsut hold her after 2 months :/

 

theres propably onlookers thinking...

what a saddo... an msn relationship..

itll never work...

but as long as we both try it will..

 

her parents are happy with her being with me

and shes said that she wants me to go over to ireland

to stay with her..

which is killing 2 birds with one stone...

as i wanted to go there and see what ireland is like

anyway...

and this means i get to be with her and see ireland

 

and my mums happy with me being with her..

my dad doesnt know..

and neither does my stepmum lol

 

although i asked my dad if i could have a "friend" to stay..

(meaning her) and he said hed think about it...

although knowing him thats a no lmao

This sounds like me last year, I wanted to visit my friend on MSN. She's in the UK (forgot which part of the UK :(, I dont think I ever did ask, or did I already?), and I'm in america :( So I probably know how you feel.

[TheSchneid 0]

yeah i see

be harder for you to see her

since your in america and shes here

 

but its still a good few hours train journey

then got to get a boat...

unless your rich then just get a flight,,

but atm.. all i can manage is the train journey

since i get free travel by train! (got to love special privileges)

 

atm i cant afford to buy a packet of crisps lmao

 

but hopefully we will still be together at christmas..

then i can see her..

then hopefully ill have some money and i can visit her

on her birthday which is in febuary

 

I just hope she doesnt:

1. get bored of me

2. find someone else

3. think the stress of us is to much

and not want to be together anymore

4... cant think of a 4 lol

[Wyzrd 12]

Ahh, an internet relationship. I will be the first to say they do work. I dated a girl for almost three years I met online. I even moved in with her. I ended up breaking up with her over some things I'd rather not get into details on. But online relationships can work as long as you both trust each other and are willing to put the best foot forward to make it work.

[TheSchneid 0]

ahh ok hehe xD

i trust her totally

although sometimes i get very paranoid

and ive accused her of cheating on me..

but after a couple of hours we are fine again

 

She knows i dont do it on purpose

i told her... that sometimes...

i just get thoughts pop into my head

and they slowly make me sad and upset

and it turns to paranoia

she understands... at least i hope and think she does

 

and i know internet relationships have worked..

but its not very common,,, as often

the stress of the distance gets to much and

one or both partners decide to stop being together

due to that reason...

 

its a sucky reason.. as if you love someone.,.

youd stick through and try.. and wait for the time you

can be together,,, but i guess some people arent like that lol