I cannot attract women

[FranklinX 37]

Hello everybody! I'm Franklin. I'm 20 years old, and currently a college student. During the school week I work on campus. My hobbies are video games, football, basketball, professional wrestling, My favorite food is chicken. My favorite food is chicken, and favorite meal is Shrimp Lo Mein with Orange Chicken on top! I love rootbeer. It's so good.

 

I never had any luck with women. I have never been kissed, been on a date, nor had a girlfriend. A woman has never been attracted to me before. Every girl who has rejected has said I have too ugly to date. Girls who I did not asked on dates also said that I am the ugliest guy there is date. I am the worst of the worst.(Don't get confused, I am saying their opinions. I am not calling myself ugly).

 

Sometimes when I try to meet a new girl, she gives me a negative facial expression. She makes an ugly face like "hey back off" or "is this guy really trying to talk to me?". I am not hitting on her. I am just trying to have casual conversation.

 

In school girls always said I am the worst looking guy to get. The worst of the worst to ever date. Schoolgirls sometimes like to rate guys. Who is cute, sexy, hot, average, nerdy, or just plain ugly. I always ended up on the ugly rating from every girl.

 

One of my problems is that my ears are deformed. They stretch out and curl really bad. Is this putting women off? I'm thinking about getting surgery to get them fixed. Lastic is also something I am looking into.

 

Last year I decided to try online dating. I sent a few girls some messages, but never got a response. One site has a picture rating system. My picture rating average is between 1 and 2 out of 10.

 

People often say I am a good looking guy. People at church always say this. My friends and family often say this. At first I am like " hey they are just being nice". However I am often to this by random older people. At church Sunday the pastor spoke up in prayer and made a special prayer for me(he was giving out other prayers). He mention that I am a good looking guy, and a lot people were also saying this(they don't know about my problem with women). When I was younger random people always said I was a good looking kid, and they said it to me more often than every other kid in my classes.

 

I have asked my friends to help me. My girl friends told me that they don't know anyone who would even go out with me once. Some have told me to turn gay to find love. A few girls told me I should wait until someone walks up to me. My guy friends tell me to get confidence. Some told me that it just takes longer for some people to get noticed by someone.

 

Please rate me out of ten. I want to know where I stand at the amount. I'm 6'0 and 164lbs.

 

2007 Senior Pictures

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1157-franklinjpg/

 

2008 at an amusement park.

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1160-three-fools/

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1162-the-great-game-of-golf/

 

Late 2009

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1681-pc100004jpg/

 

Currently with new glasses in 2010

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1696-pisces-party-5jpg/

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1697-at-the-officejpg/

http://www.rmxpunlimited.net/forums/gallery/image/1698-06-07-10-115jpg/

 

These are types of clothes I normally wear.

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/41R6y7XlCgL_AA260_.jpg

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/478039_Gray_Heather.jpg

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/478039_Mud_Brown.jpg

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/553995_Charcoal_Heather.jpg

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/p3895761dt.jpg

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/p6394621dt.jpg

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/p6394632dt.jpg

 

 

Recently me and my friends have started working out together. The guys know what they are doing so that really helps me. My metabolism is pretty high so I need to continue to eat allot of healthy food. Hopefully some muscle will be built.

 

Theses are my standards.

 

1. She must be a christian. I want someone who has the same religious beliefs as I do.

 

2. She must be slender. I am not attracted to women who are fat. I take care of myself so I would want someone who would do the same for themselves when it comes to weight.

 

3. She must have class and respect for herself.

 

4. She must be clean. All I am asking is for a woman to take care of herself. Be nicely groomed.

 

5. She must dress nice. Wear respectable clean clothes.

 

6. We must have good commutation. I believe a good relationship needs good communication.

 

I am not physically attracted to black women, and most young black women my age who I know are ghetto which is unattractive to me because I am an Oreo cookie:p.. I know I am black and some people criticize me of this.

 

PS: I know I made this topic before. For some reason it got deleted or something. Anyways I need some help.

[Chief 30]

pics not working

[CrimsonInferno 35]

Neither is the image in your sig, Chief. :shok:

[Chief 30]

gah, must be those darned internet police again...

[FranklinX 37]

The links should work now.

[Chief 30]

dude... the whole "big breasted women" thing is so stupid. who gives a flying crap on their breast size, lol. just saying. open yourself up a bit, you may find someone that youve been overlooking unintentionally.

 

now random thoughts while reading:

 

turn gay? eww, gross... no offence to anyone, but eww, no, do not. plus, if youre a christian, then you realize it to be a sin. now, to not look judgemental on anyone, I have to also add than stealing is a sin, and no sin is worse than any other, its always forgivable, and I really dont judge... anymore atleast, lol.

 

Umm, if some girls are calling you ugly, than they are obvious jerks and dont deserve anyone anyways, stay away from those types of girls, no matter how "hot" they may be.

 

You cant really wait for someone to come up to you, because girls tend to want the guys to ask them out, not the other way around.

 

You want a christian relationship, well read this book. Im serious. dont think about buying it, buy it:

http://thedivinematchmaker.com/

 

I see that you are 20 years old. seriously, its not the end of the world if youre not in a relationship. you can wait untill you stumble upon the perfect lady, and race should not be a factor, but I don understand the "ghetto" not being attractive, as I think it isnt as well, but Im attracted to all colors of skin, cuz I dont care.

 

I cannot stress enough on how 20 years old is not old enough to be concerned about being single. really, get the book from the above link, and then wait upon The Lord.

[FranklinX 37]

 

3. I would like a girl with big breast. I have a fetish for big breast. I would not overlook a girl with small breast, they can be cute as well. This is only just a want, not a need. I have asked out women with small breast. Most of the girls I have asked out have small breast.

[Chief 30]

I understand that, it was just one of my thoughts I decided to add in there about how lame your "big breasted thing is" especially since youve asked out small breasted women.

 

really, go get that book now.

[FranklinX 37]

I like big breast but I will not let that be the deal breaker. A woman can still be attractive with small breast.

[Chief 30]

http://thedivinematchmaker.com/

 

book. nao.

[FranklinX 37]

Right now I really like this one girl on campus. The only problem is that I don't have any classes with her. I first saw her at the office I work at on campus in the Political Science department. We had a party last Friday at the office and this girl was invented. My friends told her that I am a nice guy and I like her. However she did not show up at the party. She left out of town to see her family for spring break. Now I have no idea what to do.

 

My friends told me to add her on Facebook. I feel uncomfortable doing that because that is being like a stalker.

[Valdred 1]

After reading all you said about people saying you are ugly I were really surprised when I saw the pictures. I'm a heterosexual boy so it's hard for me to rate if another boy is good looking, but you are definitively not ugly. I wouldn't even noticed your ears if you didn't tell us about them.

 

:alright:

[FranklinX 37]

Well I got some good news and some bad news. The good news is that a girl likes me and another girl actually thinks I'm cute. However the bad news is neither one of the girls are my type.

 

Well the girl who thinks I am cute is a good person, but not what I am looking for. She has a nice body, but she dresses down everyday. She is kinda nasty. I dress atleast decent and I expect the same from a woman. I've heard that she sleeps around with allot of guys.

 

The other girl works with me. I don't want to date an employee. She is just a friend of mine. She is not the type of person who gives me that "happy" feeling. She also has no personality.

 

I've been wearing better clothes lately. Yay or Nay?

 

Franklin :: drinkings.jpg picture by RATED-RKO_2007 - Photobucket

Franklin :: PiscesParty5.jpg picture by RATED-RKO_2007 - Photobucket

Franklin :: Franklin2.jpg picture by RATED-RKO_2007 - Photobucket

[Vidian 0]

I'm not a guru or anything... well, I am, but not for girls..

 

Your clothes are nice, but do you have the personality, and are you comfortable around new people and strangers?

I notice most people mess up when they totally idolize someone, but you really have to think of the other person as your equal.

[FranklinX 37]

I have a personality, and speak to strangers.

[FranklinX 37]

This is just a short update.

 

I recently tried to talk to this one cute girl on campus, and she just ignored me. She won't even be friends.

 

I've went to the doctors a few weeks ago to get my ears checked. The doctor told me he knows the problem with my ears and would be able to fix them. Hopefully now I will be able to get insurance to cover some of the cost. I might be getting a loan to pay for the rest of the cost or all of it if the insurance will not cover it.

[Arkbennett 16]

Like... Plastic surgery?

[Valdred 1]

Wait, earlier you said that two girls like you. Do you actually like one of them except for her clothes, and just because of this you wont date her? O_o

[FranklinX 37]

Like... Plastic surgery?

 

Yes.

 

Plastic surgery is different than cosmetic surgery. Plastic surgery is for fixing something abnormal. Cosmetic surgery is to improve something that is normal.

 

Wait, earlier you said that two girls like you. Do you actually like one of them except for her clothes, and just because of this you wont date her? O_o

 

She does not like me. I just heard that she thinks that I am cute. I will date a girl who dresses down.

[madanchi 18]

hey, well tbh I dont think yur ugly, ive seen a a hell of a lot worse looking people then you. One photo of this guy over at Scyth.org, literally made me feel sick and i was forced to not look at it and go back... and it is true, i never believed that a photo of someone could actually make you il - but it did

 

I can see what you mean about your ears, but thats not really a majour thing. What it sounds liek is, the girls you asked and said your ugly sound like total bitches or feel baad about themselves so they want to make others feel bad

[Joko 1]

i personaly believe you are a good looking adult and im kind of surprised for you to say some of this.

Maybe its the area you live in?

i think it most likly is the area you live in cause you are a GOOD LOOKING GUY.

also a lot of girls are stuck up B****** (I'm not saying all just now days there's a lot of them)

I am black as well and live on the west coast (west coast for the win haha)

and the area i live in there are hardly any black people at all but still we are respected as everyone else.

 

ALSO.for somereasons some girls now days often act like they don't like you and really do just there emberrised or something

ALSO sometimes needs and belief systems need to be looked over because even if your not the same religion you may still both

be compatible. Relationships arn't so complicated as they may seem. Only complicated people.

 

if love or relationships was a person it would be the first person i'd curb stomp.

 

i know these are weird questions awnser if you want.

 

what state do you live in?

 

what are the people like?

 

are there a lot of black people there?

 

is there a lot of preppy people at your school?

 

would you say your well known?

 

if so do a lot people like you as a person maybe not in a sexual way?

[FranklinX 37]

i personaly believe you are a good looking adult and im kind of surprised for you to say some of this.

Maybe its the area you live in?

i think it most likly is the area you live in cause you are a GOOD LOOKING GUY.

also a lot of girls are stuck up B****** (I'm not saying all just now days there's a lot of them)

I am black as well and live on the west coast (west coast for the win haha)

and the area i live in there are hardly any black people at all but still we are respected as everyone else.

 

ALSO.for somereasons some girls now days often act like they don't like you and really do just there emberrised or something

ALSO sometimes needs and belief systems need to be looked over because even if your not the same religion you may still both

be compatible. Relationships arn't so complicated as they may seem. Only complicated people.

 

if love or relationships was a person it would be the first person i'd curb stomp.

 

i know these are weird questions awnser if you want.

 

what state do you live in?

 

what are the people like?

 

are there a lot of black people there?

 

is there a lot of preppy people at your school?

 

would you say your well known?

 

if so do a lot people like you as a person maybe not in a sexual way?

 

I live in Tennessee

 

There are plenty of different types of people.

 

Most of the preppy people are Political Science majors like myself. There are a few girls who are preppy.

 

I would say within my majors and classes yes, I am known and liked. The entire campus, no.

 

I can get girls to like me, but not in a sexual way because my looks turn them off.

[FranklinX 37]

My insurance Tricare offered to pay 80% of my surgery, but the doctor is refusing to label my problem as a medical issue. So now everything has to come out of my pocket and that's nearly $5000 dollars I don't have. I've tried getting a loan, but was denied.

 

Well I found this $20 dollars treatment, but I don't know if it is legate.

http://big-ears.homestead.com/

[Chief 30]

That doctor is an asshole, and that site isnt legit. there, my two cents on that post.

[madanchi 18]

doctor is a prick and that site isnt legit, it seems too, erm, not real and theres no padlock :nono4: :biggrin_002:

[FranklinX 37]

I still maybe able to pay for the surgery. I will get 30% of my father's stocks and bonds in his will. Hopefully I will have enough money to get surgery from his estate.

[Gwark 0]

You don't need surgery per se. What you should do, is roll up the sleeves a little on that shirt. Pop open the two top buttons and let your hair grow out a little, maybe even go as far as a small fro.

 

I tell ya, I had my hair fixed awhile back and girls were looking at me after.

 

Also, small breasts are hawt... just saying.

[DarkGamer 2]

Oh dude, that reminds me a case of a friend of mine...

 

Bah...Maybe your problem it's just too much hours spent in front of the computer instead of going out a bit more...(who am i to say that)...

 

Anyway, dude, there are like 99999999999, i don't belive it is as bad as you say. Damn, not even a single girl? Maybe you are just too selective, and ignore some that proably would like to meet you...

 

And yeh, maybe you could try a new look. I must say it...I never saw your looking at age 20...You dress up too formal thought...

 

But yeh, as have been said, maybe some hair would be a nice thing to have in mind, since it can give you a new cool air, also, i see you don't like your ears, it could also hide that weak point a bit.

 

And, don't give up, she's there, you just need to look better, and do for it =)

[FranklinX 37]

I had a small fo a few months ago and it made no difference. I do pop the two top buttons. I don't have any pictures showing that. I do go out, and the computer is not my life. All because someone is on a forum does not mean he stays in front of the computer all day. :angry:

 

Weak point? Show some damn respect. :angry:

 

How am I dressed too formal?

[Kiriashi 117]

Whoa RKO. Calm down. You are overreacting majorly. (Yes Chrome, that IS a word.)

 

Darkgamer meant no offense at all. In fact I'm positive he intended the opposite. He was giving advice, and support. He even assured you that there is someone out there for you.

 

Please don't turn this into a flame-war. Don't assume someone is trying to hurt your feelings. Okay?