People who go back

[Polraudio 122]

I have this problem with this girl i love and knew for 11 years and is my best friend. She told me that she will never date her X-Boyfriend again and will only be friends. Now she is hanging out with him all the time and holding hands on the couch. They are not dating yet but i think it will happen soon like in the next few days. He don't love her or anything. He thinks of her as a prize that has been won and doing it for his pride. He use to beat her all the time. Now he said he changed but i dont believe him because he is my cousin and i know how he works, he is only doing it to get back with her.

 

I love her lots and dont want to see her get hurt, Im going to tell her that and how he dont even love her and he didnt even change.

One of my cousins that i hang out with all the time and is very good in relationships told me to just tell her that and and say something like if you date him again you can kiss my ass good bye.

 

Do you think i should do that?

I got about 4 days to do so.

 

Any advice is welcomed.

[Noob Saibot 38]

Well from reading it you don't seem to be DATING her either so telling her to kiss your ass good bye would be quite ridicules to say the least. If you have feeling for her tell her; if she already knows well tell her again. And remember this (pass it on if you wish):

 

Forgive and forget...relive and regret!!!

[FranklinX 37]

I think you should move on and look for other options. She isn't the only girl on campus. Go out and meet people. Get a job on campus because it is a great way of meeting people.

[Polraudio 122]

I think you should move on and look for other options. She isn't the only girl on campus. Go out and meet people. Get a job on campus because it is a great way of meeting people.

This is not on campus. This is one of my best friends back home. We were meant to be. Im not giving up without a fight.

[Noob Saibot 38]

Let me repeat...

 

Well from reading it you don't seem to be DATING her either so telling her to kiss your ass good bye would be quite ridicules to say the least. If you have feeling for her tell her; if she already knows well tell her again. And remember this (pass it on if you wish):

 

Forgive and forget...relive and regret!!!

[ShinkuAura 15]

Well Sooner Or later she will fall in love with you but it'a hard as bad people blind her eyes

 

Luke You can do it open her eyes.

[Leon 55]

It is hard to see the forest through all the trees.

 

 

Now, if you want to fight for her, start. I don't know how, since I know nothing of what you two do together or whatnot, but if you are willing to fight, give it your all, and you'll regret nothing.

[Decadenttia 2]

Maybe you can make her see you're really worried about her. Talk to her sincerely. Try again. Maybe you can warm her a bit so she will be abble to act with caution..

 

Despite everything, sometimes is not easy to ignore someone that has been so close to you even if you've been hurt.

[Polraudio 122]

I dont think im going to say kiss my ass. But i will say everything else.

[Arkbennett 16]

I think you should tell her what you told us. I wouldn't mention how you feel about her, she might think your biased in your opinion because of your feelings. I think you will know what to do when that situation happens, so I hope.

[Polraudio 122]

Ok, she is no longer talking to me. She opens up my texts and dont even reply. Didnt even get a chance to talk to her. O well if she wants to date Dicks then she can go right ahead. I will just have to wait till she gets abused again and be there for her. Thanks for everyone's advice.