FranklinX 37 Report post Posted February 20, 2011 People have a lot of theories of about dating and love. Some are off the wall. While other theories have more weight on them. I think some people are in denial about how dating works. Let's start about looks. People always say looks don't matter. However, when have you heard someone say "Wow! That chick is totally ugly man! Her personality is so great that I want to get her pants!"? I do think personality is important. Looks come first. Looks are what get people interested in you, and your personality keeps them interested. Your personality will never start the attraction. Some people like to say that income is not a big deal. I have to disagree. People rarely marry out of their social class. It has been statistically proven to be a fact. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chief 30 Report post Posted February 20, 2011 (edited) Do looks matter? Of course, you can't just be some slob, and expect to attract someone, thats not right. At least try, regardless of your weight, etc. If you look like you've never taken a shower, don't expect to attract someone, lol Does social status matter? Not at all. Who's to say who you can or can not be with? Thats just absurd. Who cares how much money they have? I actually, and this is odd, hate money. if I didnt need it to jsut survive, and stay off the streets, I wouldnt want any of it, not even to buy things for entertainment, etc. if She doesnt have money, or if she's right, I couldnt care less. What comes first? Personality. Looks might be the first thing you notice, because hey, thats what you see, but if she/he doesn;t have an attractive personality, it won;t last. I for one, wouldn't date someone who was a complete jerk to people, and had an elitist attitude. Thats just way too unattractive. Edited February 20, 2011 by Chief Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Allen Hunter Report post Posted February 20, 2011 Image attracts. Personality bonds. Money talks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FranklinX 37 Report post Posted February 27, 2011 What comes first? Personality. Looks might be the first thing you notice, because hey, thats what you see, but if she/he doesn;t have an attractive personality, it won;t last. I for one, wouldn't date someone who was a complete jerk to people, and had an elitist attitude. Thats just way too unattractive. You contradicted yourself. You said personality comes first, but then you said looks are the first thing noticed. :blink: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bigace360 38 Report post Posted February 27, 2011 You contradicted yourself. You said personality comes first, but then you said looks are the first thing noticed. :blink: I think he meant personality is main thing you should be looking for, but looks would come first unless your blind :B): or had your eyes close walking up to her/him. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
