EmilyAnnCoons 7 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 My friend says I was supposed to be born a girl, cause I act female in a LOT of ways...me, personally, I don't really believe you can be born the wrong gender...But, I wanted to see what people thought of that...I mean, do you think a person can be born the wrong gender? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satiel 0 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 Hmm. Well, in this day and age, genders are defined by a number of different things: attitude, general views about life, personalities, etc. The problem is that stereotypes out there have basically defined, in the media's perspective, what a guy "should" do and what a girl "should do". I think it's stupid. This basically means that if an adult male wear make-up, he is considered a "feminine" guy because he does something commonly associated with females. I don't think that's cool. Well, I think your friend is wrong (no offense). Everyone has their own unique personality, which shouldn't be blatently divided by gender stereotypes. : D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suzakudemon 0 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 I doubt that you can be born with the wrong gender, but it could be possible. I think people act a way because of the people they grow up with when they were a small child. My friend is the same way i think. His dad left him while he was still small so all he had to hang out with was his mom, and he acts like a female sometimes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satiel 0 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 Hmm true, definitely the people who are most influential on your personality is the people you grow up with. Also, the community you live in can have a huge effect on your personality and overall attitude as well, or at least I think so. Depending on the type of neighborhood you live in, such as one that has helping neighbors or one that has crimes as a common thing, it could even affect your overall outlook of the world. For, though we all know how huge this world is, we often shun the rest of the world out and try not to think about it and only focus on our present. :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suzakudemon 0 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 Exactly. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marked 197 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 Well I dont think you can be born the wrong gender. Like they said above, its the environment that your grow up in the defines your behaviour and attitude. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EmilyAnnCoons 7 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 -nods- you all have had really cool answers ^^ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marked 197 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 So did we help you? ... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satiel 0 Report post Posted January 6, 2007 Hehe, I hope we did. I like these kinda topics because they bring out the forums' members' true ideas and thoughts on subjects never asked normally. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EmilyAnnCoons 7 Report post Posted January 7, 2007 hehe, yeah...it wasn't really about helping me. It was more just a debate on who thought that it was possible and such. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marked 197 Report post Posted January 7, 2007 oh, right. Yeah, well im for, its not possible. Like i said above. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satiel 0 Report post Posted January 7, 2007 Yeah, I'm for - people are born the way they are supposed to be born - no better and no worse of a personality can be bestowed upon them than what was intended. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Dragon 0 Report post Posted January 16, 2007 well, if people are born in the wrong gender, I'd say no, that cannot happen as for girlish attitudes, then yes, there are things boys shouldn't do and girls shouldn't do I've seen people that if you see you might want to puke, I mean...I don't know it's like they...ungh they are so girlish in like EVERYTHING all they need is another body and that's it A GIRL so yeah, that's what I think... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leon 55 Report post Posted January 16, 2007 Just tell him you are in touch with your feminine side. Believe it or not, there is nothing wrong with that. (INfact, girls dig that half the time. Just be sure to save some mystery and some macho too... lol) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EmilyAnnCoons 7 Report post Posted January 16, 2007 well, if people are born in the wrong gender, I'd say no, that cannot happenas for girlish attitudes, then yes, there are things boys shouldn't do and girls shouldn't do I've seen people that if you see you might want to puke, I mean...I don't know it's like they...ungh they are so girlish in like EVERYTHING all they need is another body and that's it A GIRL so yeah, that's what I think... haha, you should meet me, then, cause that's me ^^ Sometimes I do feel like a girl trapped in a guys body... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Satiel 0 Report post Posted January 16, 2007 Well, if you look at it through the religious perspective, Eve was born out of a part of Adam's stomach. So technically, man and female are more alike then one would think. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Dragon 0 Report post Posted January 17, 2007 Man I doubrt that you have girlish attitudes as the ones I've seen, I mean ye like RPGs after all Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wyzrd 12 Report post Posted February 13, 2007 You aren't born to the wrong gender. It's just the way you grow up and stuff. I know several people that are gay and bisexual. One of the bisexual guys once told me bout a week ago. HE turned bisexual so he wouldn't get a girl pregant in high school. I mean thats kind of on a different subject. But I guess hwat I'm trying to say is there is a reason for everything. The way we act and think, the things we do. It's all has reasons behind it. :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arkbennett 16 Report post Posted February 13, 2007 Nothing more cooler than just being yourself. And that's that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grandor 0 Report post Posted February 14, 2007 Their is no such thing as a wrong gender. The way your chromosomes paired up is how they were supposed to be. And the one that determined your gender, is like all your other ones, just a act of nature. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chief 30 Report post Posted July 5, 2008 absolutely no way anyone could be wrong gender... and gender is only defined by your body parts... dont you dare tell em that you can define your gender by what you do and what you like... jsut no... its bull sh*t... youre born who you were supposed to be Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
