I don't have the full story, but it sounds like you may be dealing with domestic abuse. That's something you could get the authorities involved with. Can you tell us any more? I don't want to make any assumptions.
Another thing to remember: The universe tries so hard to destroy humanity, but about 500,000 years later, we're still around. Keep that in mind, and let out a nice resounding "YEAH! F**K YOU UNIVERSE!" every day. Shouting makes you feel better.
Anything you wanna discuss? I got:
A whole new computer! It looks like it's going to shape out to be a quantum leap from my current computer.
Two T-shirts
Two albums (Metallica's ...And Justice For All and Iron Maiden's A Matter of Life and Death)
A new camera and accessories
an Old Spice gift box.
A marshmallow gun.
new slippers
a Lionel model train tree ornament
In short, this Christmas was awesome!